lengai huazhenlianhechuangshiren 

情感导师；

二级心理咨询师；

erjihunyinjiatingzixunshi；

guangdongshenghunshixiehuifuhuizhang；

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lengai，zhenmingpansheng，jiangsudaxuezhongwenxicaizi，chucizhiwai，tashihuazhenshenduqingganweixidaoshi、huazhenlianhechuangshiren。buguoduiyuxueyuanlaishuo，zheixietouxiandouburupeixunkeshangdelengdalaidezhenshikeai，zaixueyuandeyanli，lengaishiyigekeyiqingsuxinshidekekaodedagege，chengshuwenzhong，lizhiyoumo，duitamendeganqingwentikeyijichuzhuanyekexingdejianyi，danouerhuiyouxiediaopi，yincitamenxihuanqinqiedichenghutawei“lengda”。

工作历程与成就

q：weishenmexuanzejinruqingganxingyede？

a：wozai2007nianjiechudaoguowaidelianaixue，dangshijiuduiqingganxingyehenganxingqu，wodejiarenxiwangwokaoqugongwuyuan，danwobingbuxiwangguozheiyangchaojiuwanwudeshenghuo。er2007nianrenliziyuanheshehuibaozhangbujianghunyinjiatingzixunshilierulexinzhiye，guoneideqingganxingyesuiranhaimeiqibu，danshiqianjingguangkuo，zheirangwoxiadingjuexinjinruzheigexingye。

q：xianzainishizhimingdeqinggandaoshi，yongyoudaliangdefensi，muqianweibofensiyoujishiwan，yikaishihuixiangdaozijinengdadaojintianzheigegaoduma？

a: zhinengshuozheiyiqiedoushiyiliaozhiwaiqinglizhizhongba。nengzoudaojintian，woyouliangdawuqi，yishizhuanzhu，zhuanzhuyuqingganlilundeyanjiuheshijian，ershiwangluo，yituowangluoweigongzhongtigongjiazhibingchuanbowodeqingganlilun。

2008niandeshihouwochoujianlezijidegongzuoshi，bingqiekaishichuangzuo《lengaimoxing》，liyongwangluoshequfazhanyewu。eryouyuzhongzhongyuanyin，2009nianwocaikaishifenxiangwodeqingganlilunhejingyan，wodexueyuanlaiziwuhusihai，gexinggeye，xinggejiongyi，dandouweiqingsuokunerwurennengjie，wohenrongxingtamenxuanzelewo，tamenduikechengderenkehehaopingrangwobeishouguwu。yushibenzhecujinguoneiqingganlilunjiaoliudechuxin，wocehualenanxingmeiligaofengluntan。er2011nian《lengaimoxing》zhongyuwanchengle，yiciweijichu，wochangshizaiweiboshangkaishe“lengyanguanai”mianfeiqingganzixunlanmu，meixiangdaofeichangshouwangyouhuanying，meitiandouyouwushuwangyoufasixinqingsuqingganwenti。zhihouwoyouzaiwangluoshangluxuyi“aideyishu”、“jiqiaofangfa”he“ziwotisheng”weizhutikaishelegongkaike，qunianwodeximalayagerendiantaiyeshangxianle，dingqifabuwodeqingganlilunhejingyan，bingqiehelieshouhezuo《dakaqingganxiu》，jiegongzhongrenwudeganqingjieshuoaiqingbingfa。

q：jiexialaiyoushenmejihuama？

a：muqianhuazhenzhengzaiyuguangdongshenghunyinjiatingzixunshixiehuigongtongchoubanguangdongshenghunyinjiatingshipeixunxuexiao，jinnianjihuayaoqingmeiguohunyinjiatingzhiliaoxiehui（amft）daniuyuezhouzhuxidr.ehingerlaihua，xueximeiguoxitongdezixunshipeiyangkecheng。

梦想与观点

q：nidemengxiangshishenme？

a：wodemengxianghenshizai，jiushixiwangjianghuazhendazaochengqingganxingyedehuangpujunxiao，rangzhongguorenxiangshoudaogaozhiliangdehunlianzixunfuwu。jiumuqianlaishuo，zhongguoqingganxingyehaichuyuqibujieduan，danhuazhenyijingfazhanchengweihunlianzixunyupeixunxingyebiaoganpinpai，kaishichoubanguangdongshenghunyinjiatingshipeixunxuexiao，bingqiezuoweiweiyiyijiaqingganleigongsiruwei《kuaigongsi》2015zhongguozuijiachuangxingongsi50。suoyi，woxiangxinwolidemengxiangdeneiyitianbuyuanle。

q：nideaiqinglinianshishenme？

a：dute、youqu、ziyou、zhenchenghehuxiangzunzhong，zheishiwocongshiqingganxingyeyilaisuoyizhichangdao。

q：henduowangyouhuixiangnizixunwanhuiqianrendewenti，keyijiandanshuoshuonizaiwanhuizheifangmiandexindema？

a：qishiguanyuwanhuizheigezhuti，woyouzhuanmenxiewenzhangfangzaiwodeweiboshang。yibanlaishuo，fenshoufenweizhenxingfenshouhejiaxingfenshou。yaoqufenzheiliangzhong，zhuyaokanyixiajigezhibiao：diyiduifangshifouhenibaochilianxi，dierduifangshifouduiniyouqingxubodong，disanduifangshifouhaimeizaipengyouquangongbunimenfenshoudexiaoxi，ruguozheisangezhibiaodoushikendingdeyibanshijiaxingfenshou，ruguoshifoudingdeyibanshizhenxingfenshou。jiaxingfenshoudewanhuixuyaojishilianxi，zuochuchengnuoherangbu，erzhenxingfenshouzexuyaozhangshijiandeduanlian，ziwotisheng，ranhoufulianjinxingercixiyin，zheijiushizhenxingfenshouwanhuisanbuqu。

q：henduorenfenshouhouningyuanzhaoyigetibulaifujiutong，yebuyuanyizhimianzijidewenti。nihuishuofutamenma？

a：shuofushixiaolvzuidideyizhonggoutongfangshi。zhiyourangtawei“xuexiai”maidandeshihou，cainenggengyouxiaolvdixuexi。

tuoniaocelveshizuijiandande，danshijieshangcunzaineimeduojiejingma？zheixierenzairenshengzhongchangshiyonggezhongwaigua，liruchenggongxuedeshu、suxiaoxingqinggan、mazuixingwangque……

wojianyifenshouhoushouxianxuyaozijixiang，jiusuanbierenshuonixiaxiangniyeyaoxiang。xiangqingchu：duinilaishuo，aishishenme？nidaodixiangyaodeshishenme？niweishenmefangqita，huozhetaweishenmefangqini？shiniyoushenmewenti，haishinimendexiangchumoshichuleshenmewenti？zaiwoweiboliyeyouxieguo，youtiaojiandehua，chuqulvxing，zaizouzhiqianbasuoyoudewentihedaanluoliechulaixiezaizhishangsuodaochoutili，yexulvxinghuilaizaikan，huibuyiyang。

q：nicengshuoguo“lianggerenxianzaideaiqingyouduononglie，jiunengzhengmingtamenguoquyouduojimo，yenengyujiantamenweilaiyouduoshiluo……”yidingshijingguolixingfenxihoudeaicaihuibijiaozhangjiu？

a：henduorenwuyiweijiqingshiaiqingbenshen，jiqingheaiqingdeguanxiyoudianxiangyuyuehexingfudeguanxi。nigangjianwanshenxilegezao，ganjuehenshufu，zheishiyuyue，bushixingfu。yuyuedailaidekuaigan，shuaituidifeichangkuai。jiqingbenshenyeshiyizhongyuyuegan。nijimotaijiuhouheyigerenxunsuzhuiruaihe，ruguomeiyouganqingchujiqingheaiqingdequbie，huibazheigejiqingdangchengaiqingdebiaozhunquhengliang，neiyangzhihuidailaishiluo，yinweirenbukenengyongyuanshenghuozaigaochaozhizhong。renjimobukepa，jiqingsanwuciyebukepa，napashijiqinghougengshiluoyebukepa，kepadeshibuquzongjiezheixiejingyanjiaoxun。

guanyuzhangjiudeai，bijiaohaodezhuangtaidangranshiyouguoyidingdejinglihesikao，dongdexiangshoujiqing，youkeyiyiqifenxiangchengzhangdeneizhong。

q：muqianshehuishangyouhenduonianqingnannvxihuanshanhunshanli，duicinizenmekanni？

a：duiciwodekanfashirenyidingyaoxuehuiweizijidexuanzechengdanhouguo。muqianlaishuo，wulunnannv，cengjingdehunshi，douhuiduiweilaidezeouzaochengxiaojideyingxiang，suoyiwojianyidajiayidingyaoshenzhongdiduidaihunyin，xuanzejinruhunyinyijijingyinghunyindeshihouyaoxuehuiqiwangguanliyijichongtuguanli，buyaoduihunyinyouguogaodeqiwang，henduorenzhisuoyishanhunshanlijiushiyinweiduihunyinyouzhebuqieshijideqiwang，danshijiehunlezhihoufaxianbingfeiruci。

q：neimeyinggairuhejingyinghunyinni？

a：zheishiyigehendadehuati，wojiandanshuoyixia。zhangjiuyijixingfudehunyinyidingyaoliangrengongtongjinbu，erqieduiweilaiyouzhegongtongdemubiaohuozheguihua，xuehuichuangzaoxingdijiejueshenghuozhongdechongtuyijihelikongzhishuangfangduibicideqiwang。

媒体采访与活动邀请

zaiqingganfangmiandechengjiu，ranglengaibeishoumeitizhumu，cengbeihunanweishi、beijingweishi、hebeiweishi、xinlang、wangyi、souhu、tengxun、《xinliyuekan》、《nanfangzhoumo》、《esquire》（shishangxiansheng）、《news china》（zhongguoxinwenzhoukanyingwenban）、《jingpingouwuzhinan》、《yangziwanbao》、《fengshangzhoubao》、《good housekeeping》（shishang·haoguanjia）、《men's uno》（fengdu）、《shishangcosmo》、《xinnvbao》、《weixingjisuanjigeek》dengdenggedameiticaifanghuobaodao。yuchristopher wuyiqiyumeiguoqinggandaoshiwayne eliselianhekaishejiangzuo，cengbeicnn、nbc、skynewsdengchaoyixianguojimeitibaodao。

ciwai，tazaiqingganxingyedechengjiuyeshoudaoguoneiwaigejierenshiderenke，2015nian10yue31ri，lengaiyingtaiwanhunyinyujiatingfudaoxuehuiyaoqing，xieduicanjialebowenjiatinglilunyuduoyuanlingyuduihuaguojiyantaohui。2015nian12yue31ri，lengaihexiaoranyuejianmeiguohunyinjiatingzhiliaoxiehui（amft）daniuyuezhouzhuxidr.ehinger，bingshoudaoguojihunyinjiatingzhiliaoxiehui（ifat）yaoqing，canjia2016quanqiuhunyinjiatingzhiliaodahuiyijizaiaomenlianhejuban2017quanqiuhunyinjiatingzhiliaodahui。2016nian1yue16rilengaishouyaocanjia“gujia·jiahedajiangtang”quanguoxunjianggongyijiangzuo，yi“rangqinmiguanxigengxingfu”weizhuti，weidajiajiangjieyuehuijiagouhechongtuguanli。2016nian1yue23rilengaiyuxiaorandaibiaohuazhenchuxileguangdongshenghunyinjiatingzixunshixiehuidiliucichangwulishihuikuodahuiyi。